Wrap List - Can you have a default focus?

I hope the title says it all??

The scenario...Home horizontal menu, click down and the submenu pops up. I have a smartplaylist setup that returns "In Progress" Items. I would like this to always be the default button/label when you open the submenu (even if you navigate away and come back)

Is this possible and how is it done??

I know you can change the menus listing order by changing their order in the "Includes_Home_Horizontal.xml" file, but not sure a default focus can be setup on more than one button in the same xml file.

Thx.