OK - so I performed more tests and now I have some answers:-)
1)
I created additional USB wire/adapter to connect internal CEC adapter directly to USB port of my notebook.
tavoc - unfortunately your theory was wrong - providing only USB signals to internal CEC adapter (pins 9-12) is not enough - it does not allow to upgrade firmware nor use cec-client to test it.
So then I added two more wires to pins 1&2 with 3.3V from external power supply and.......it worked - I successfully upgraded firmware to version 4.
2)
I got back to my NUC configuration with new firmware of CEC adapter.
Still no change - no entries about CEC adapter in dmesg, cec-client couldn't find any connected adapter
Digital multimetr still shows 2.6V on CEC adapter's pins 1&2
3)
I slightly modified my wiring and provided 3.3V to CEC adapter from SATA power connector (orange wire)
and..........everything works! CEC adapter magically appeared in dmesg and XMBC's peripherials menu!
SATA power connector gives rock stable 3,3V measured on CEC adapter's pins 1&2, but it's not originating from standby rail and because of that, internal CEC adapter has lost one of its greatest advantages over external version - it can not wake NUC with CEC signal:-(
I'm not satisfied with this solution, because it's not very elegant, especially if you want to connect SATA drive and also because in this configuration it doesn't have functionality I bought it for (power up on CEC signal) - in this case external CEC adapter is in my opinion better and safer option to buy. I wasn't also able to find 3.3V Standby signal from any other header/connector on the motherboard, and I don't want to solder anything directly to it, because it would void my warranty from Intel :-(
There is certainly something wrong with 3.3V standby voltage from CSH header, so I'm still waiting for answer from Intel to my support request, but I found something unsetting in their technical documentation - although in this article (
http://www.intel.com/support/motherboard...034631.htm) Intel claims that 3.3V standby pin from CSH/HTPC header "Can be used to power custom solution (such as daughtercard, etc.) with up to 2 A of current rating capability", but in technical documentation to NUC motherboard (
http://downloadmirror.intel.com/23090/en...Spec06.pdf), on page 47 (2.2.4.5) you can only find statement that "3.3 V Standby: can be used to monitor the presence of 3.3 V standby power". In "Specification Changes or Clarifications" on page iv you can also find that in March 2014 there was "Spec Clarification" regarding section 2.2.4.5, but I don't know how it looked before this change:-(