sorry we (at least i am) are not that technical
so could you explain a little more what exactly you did?
where can i find that xml file and what exactly did you delete
because it would help to know what i'm deleting without just deleting rows i don't have a clue what they mean
thanks for all the ideas already though
i'll sure give that media companion a try...
*EDIT*
ok, was beeing to fast again,
i figured it out.
@Boushard: as Spiff told, best way is to open dialogselect.xml its in the folder /skins/aeon/720p/dialogselect.xml
open it in notepad or something alike
scroll down to <control type="list" id="3">
immediatly below that node you got subnodes like
posx, posy, onup, ondown, onleft, onright
you can see the onleft and onright node are there twice
i'm not sure how to know which onleft / onright node is the right one
but i deleted 1 of the 2 sets, and started xbmc to see if it worked,
somehow my main menu was fucked up already and my backdrops dissapeared
so i closed it down and placed the onleft and onright node i deleted back
and deleted the other 2.
and now it works, when i press left or right it jumps to the 'manual' button.
neat
thanks to spiff for the technical solution
thanks to the others for workarounds on media management.